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boss's three sentences a man out for 20 years, finally going home, the boss asked him: You are 20 years of wages to be three or advice? The man said the road tomorrow, tomorrow morning to give you the answer right? The boss said I could. Men did not sleep that night ... morning, his boss said: I want to three warnings. So the boss gave him three words. First, do not try to find a shortcut, there were no cheap thing, only down to earth is the best way ... Whatever it takes. Second, do not knows is not a good thing to do too much curiosity, there is likely you will have died. Third, do not make any impulsive decisions when, otherwise, this decision is likely to become your lifetime of regret. Having the boss to the man some money and three bread, and told: the biggest in the home after the eat bread. Men hit the road ... he was gone for several days ... the first half of bread, and did not take long encounter an intersection, he inquired: Which way does the ** Near? Passerby: it walked the path, near. Lu Renyi: walk on the path bar, safe. He can not wait to meet with his wife, then go down the lane. Not long to go to hear some passers-by near the downtown Bandit said, and he remembered the boss's first piece of advice: Do not try to find shortcuts. So he walked back to the piece of road. And went a few days, the second part of the bread and ate it ... he found a very cheap inn lodging. Middle of the night heard a woman crying, he slept high. Decided to go look. Then he thought of a second piece of advice: Do not knows is not a good thing to do too much curiosity. So he lie in it. Second day of the leave, the store scared and said: you still alive? ! He puzzled, then asked why. Store said he had a crazy daughter, when the disease introduced by crying out to kill and then, last night lodging guests only you alive. Man sighed: ah ... and go a few days, when the second time he had finished the bread not far away from home. He is more excited. Tian Ganghei down not long after, he went to his village. Home, he just going to knock on the door, they heard the voice of a man inside. He was in a rage, picked up a wood cutting knife burst into the room will be ready to kill that man. But when he thought the third piece of advice: Do not make any impulse decision, this decision may make you regret it for life. So he calmed down, sat outside the house overnight. He was an early morning knock on the door, his wife is very happy to see him back. But he is very cold: the man? His wife laughed and said: That is our Son ... you're gone ... I did not take long when he found the young man and his actually looks very similar. Father and son first met, hugged a man cry out ... After a while the third concerns the bread preparation and wife, child share together ... only to find that 20 years after cutting the wages of all inside. So we have to think clearly to do anything else to the last regret into a major event in their own
9 essential capability means 9, 9 share
a state of mind: calm
(2) Do not tell everyone that your problems and experiences.
(3), in consultation with the views of others before their first thought, but do not talk about.
(4) there is an opportunity not to nag your dissatisfaction.
(5) other important decisions as far as possible to discuss the best every day and then released.
(6) do not have any of the panic talk, walk, too.
II: carefully
(1) what is happening around them, often thinking their causation.
(2) the implementation of the impossible position, to uncover their fundamental crux of the problem.
(3) of the accustomed ways of doing things, the proposal should be improved or optimized.
(4) should do something to develop the habit of methodical and orderly.
(5) Some people do not see often to find out problems or defects.
(6) anywhere on the inadequacy of their own to fill the seats where.
III: bold
(1) lack of confidence not commonly used words
(2) do not often go back, have decided to do lightly overturned.
(3) fighting over the crowd, do not assertive.
(4) the overall atmosphere is low, you should be optimistic about the sun.
(5) intentions of doing anything else, because someone is watching you.
(6), when things do not breath, and again to find a breakthrough to end but also neat and tidy.
Four: Tatu
(1) Do not bother to have a partner who could become rivals.
(2) on other people's mistakes, small errors do not care about.
(3) the money to be generous, to learn the three facilities (fiscal measures, the Dharma, giving of fearlessness)
(4) do not have the arrogance of power and knowledge of the bias.
(5) any results and achievements should be shared with others.
(6) must be some sacrifice or devotion, he himself walked in front.
five: integrity
(1) failed to do Do not say, say on the efforts to do so.
(2) the empty slogans or slogans do not often linked to his mouth.
(3) for the client's
(5) juggle a small smart, no good!
(6) calculate the cost of the integrity of the product or service that is cost of the brand.
Six: play
(1) review of any fault, when start their own or their own people began to reflect.
(2) issues after the end of the first review of fault, and then set out the credit.
(3) admit the beginning from higher levels, the table function from the lower start
(4) start a program, the first clear delineation of responsibilities, and the distribution properly.
(5) of the > 1, the courage to decision - to overcome the habit of indecision nothing
reason many people, the biggest problems is the lack of means of daring decision, always glance right and left, after thinking it over, so missed the best opportunity of success. into a major event in the view likelihood of success to the arrival of things, the courage to make major decisions, so a head start.
2, Challenge weaknesses - completely change their imperfections
Every man, who can not always stick into a major event their own weaknesses, life can be a major change; can become a major event are always good at their own weaknesses on the surgery, ability to transform itself into a super person. a company can not correct their deficiencies who are only is a loser!
3, overcome difficulties - from the failure group of successful capital
always face difficulties in life's challenges, even difficult to say that events from the plight of those who are able to become a powerful springboard to success.
4, seize the opportunity - good selection, good at creating
opportunity is the greatest wealth in life. Some people waste the opportunity easily, so one has potential opportunities are quietly run away, is absolutely not allowed to slip into a major event, and can jump toward the opportunity.
5, to play a strong point - do what you do best
a very weak person capacity it is difficult to open the life situation, the stage of life he must be the victim of heavyweight; into a big person to do on their own, and fully display their talents, step by step expand the road to success.
6, attitude adjustment - - Never let a negative attitude and emotional harm themselves
people who can not afford to live in any case pick and burden, because they can not face the frustration of a personal hygiene, while those on the high-speed into a major event in mind, even when there is no hope, but also see the light first-line success.
7, immediate action - just saying no, a hundred times better than an operation futile
thought. Some people are more realistic than the reality of things happen to him; into a major event on a daily basis by those who act to implement their life plans.
8, good at communication - a clever use of human resources people do not know how
exchanges, will inevitably promote the power of relationships. into one of the characteristics of those events is: good by leveraging, by heat to create a successful situation, one pieces can be difficult to accomplishing things done to make them realize their life planning.
9, re-planning - to stand a higher starting point
Life is a process, success is a process. If you satisfied with small success, it will promote the great success. into a major event should know that small to large hard process, so in achieving a small success, to continue to open the next life not the best result, I am afraid it is difficult to say. into a major event are always choosing the best means to achieve the best results, which most people can do right and wrong. Therefore, the road to success, you want to become a major event , the first problem to be solved is: your means if you plan to promote the immediate success!
capacity
into nine major challenges of the necessary ability to survive: to find good answers in the real ; ; ;
1, put right state of mind, For those who dare to face the reality
harsh reality of constantly complaining about people who can not desirable reality, just as prison life, both hands and feet bound, and bound body and mind, so often succumb to the pressure of reality, a weak persons; and those who really great things, dare to challenge the reality is, in reality, honing their survival skills, which is called the strong!
Here, we can come to an experience of great things: to adapt to changing realities rapidly change their ideas, the most important thing is we need to have an intelligent mind and a flexible eye, caring people to do life.
under pressure in the real world, if you change the concept, timely and forward, to be received to the multiplier effect.
can not be separated even for a moment the reality of our bottom-up, with the reality of change, we must adapt their ideas, thoughts, actions and goals. This is a must to survive.
If we have a way to change reality to fit our abilities and desires of the development needs are the most valuable.
2, so you have a strong self-control
made, is to overcome desire, not because of some impulsive pressure on the heart, encountered something that is not desirable to blow.
a person unless the first control yourself or you will not be able to control others.
a successful event as long as the target man, know what they want , and then take action, tell yourself do not give up, success is only a matter of time only.
the way if you are in trouble or obstacles, you go to face it and solve it, and then move on, so the problem was more product will not be more.
Yibubuxiang you climb, do not say to yourself the most difficult to overcome is their own, the meaning of these words is that the biggest obstacle to a person's success does not come from the outside world, but their own. only control myself, to control the pressure to yield to the pressure in front of you.
3, the emotion into the rationality of the box
a generation of resistance is often subtle, but it effects a person's life is huge, this effect reflected from the many little things. We should try to eliminate their own negative emotions, because it will give us not only cause physical and psychological harm, and in our road to success, and negative emotions can sometimes be a stumbling block.
to your success, you have the emotional into the rational box, you have to adapt to others, adapt to the situation, otherwise, you are not destined to become a major event, destined to be eliminated.
4, the power of thought alone can stimulate
alone if you know how, then, into a major event by all people who are good at being alone - alone in the process in the power of inspired thinking.
inferiority can be like a mountain man and make you never overwhelming silence, like the propeller can have a strong power.
before anyone else step, to create a successful state of mind.
in alone, you should be thinking, do not always overstaffed.
5, pressure is the best incentive
who want to become a major event, because target lofty, pressure may be greater. But Ruoyu into a major event, to be able to withstand this pressure, the pressure as the driving force to promote life.
one of the most outstanding work is often the case out in the face of adversity made. people will want to have to do certain things. be sure to do a good job, the firm does not do.
does not necessarily get good news, is not all lost a bad thing.
6, the transformation strain, have a way out
of change, good change, to adjust their programs of action, which is as big a way to adapt to the reality.
a person does not deal with people superb skills, the various conditions are not thoughtful mind, a means of flexibility to the situation simply can not control the large, will be difficult to become a major event.
a person can see their status, state of mind will be balanced Many will be able to look at an objective view, understand the world, and adjust their behavior accordingly.
7, self-confidence is a strong pillar of life who
confidence sufficient ability to adapt to high ability to adapt to lower and vice versa.
general lack of confidence in some of the more serious physical and psychological symptoms were often, such as eccentric, fear with people, talking too extreme, pessimism.
If the experience of doing the more successful, then the stronger self-confidence.
opportunity to exercise self-less successful, more self-confidence is weak, resulting in a serious inferiority complex.
nineteenth-century thinker Ralph Waldo Emerson said: will be invincible. .
not a major event into the event and who were only small differences in a number of actions: to spend 5 minutes a day reading, and more make a phone call, a little more effort, one that at the right time, performing on multiple charges a little effort, do more research or more tests in a laboratory.
yourself before you act enough to know if you qualified for this task.
no excuse can be interpreted as the will Why you still can not be qualified for a long time task.
Whether you want to pursue what you have to force yourself to enhance the capacity to achieve its objectives.
spare no exercise, engage in active practice, in the end spare no practice! never stop learning, and be sure to apply the knowledge acquired in daily life.
9, to concentrate on one thing to do
If most people concentrate strictly on a job, they can do this work well.
most of those events into business is the ability to make decisions quickly and decisively, they are always the first to identify a clear goal and focus and dedication towards this goal.
concentrate on doing one time only things, threw himself into and actively want it to succeed, so that your heart will not feel exhausted.
do you need to think of a big row of a small drawer in the drawer. Do not always think of all drawer, and to focus on that you have to open the drawer. each man the means to act is not the same, you can tell, there is a means to a person, a person will have a means to succeed on their own way. Numerous facts have shown that some people are too self-confident, sure miss their means to solve any problem, but do not know that this is often not have any effect. Therefore, they always felt from the goal of success is not getting closer, but In fact more and more distant.
into a big attitude
the necessary state of mind of 9: positive
1. always thinking stand out
2. do to do extraordinary things
7. to keep the young mind is very important
8. is always positive, active, enthusiastic attitude
II: diligent humility
1. Top Gun thinking, and get down to dry
2. Qin Jing industry, humility man
3. diligence than talent
4. hard-working breeds success, the lazy genius destroyed
5. cultivate the habit of hard work will be a lifetime benefit
6. have a hard, there is a harvest
7. perseverance and support to Three: Honesty and trustworthiness
1. honesty is the essence from their
2. honest and trustworthy is the big winner
3. in good faith to lay a successful foundation
4. sincere friendship will make you the cause of more developed
5. a man should be upright conduct
6. honesty is as big with enthusiasm to do things
mentality of the four: the courage to challenge
1. dare to challenge themselves, overcome demeaning psychological
2. challenges that can limit
3. persist in the end made by the courage of a coward
halfway 4. for the challenges provoked into a big confidence
5. Courage is the good way to overcome difficulties
6. Katsuhito by force, since the winner strong
7. persistence and perseverance are the basic skills into a major event
8. perseverance great things, a little attitude no way out
Five: Six good cooperation
mind: balance
contentment of mind of Seven: the mentality of the eight
optimist: generous guest,
nine attitude: always confident
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